{"id":616,"date":"2012-09-24T15:34:06","date_gmt":"2012-09-24T20:04:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/?p=616"},"modified":"2012-09-24T15:38:58","modified_gmt":"2012-09-24T20:08:58","slug":"las-relaciones-una-optica-personal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/?p=616","title":{"rendered":"Las Relaciones: Una \u00f3ptica personal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Superman.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-617\" title=\"Superman\" src=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Superman-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Superman-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/Superman-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>\u201c<em>Si se trata, de querer la atenci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s esfu\u00e9rzate por no esforzarte demasiado\u201d<\/em> A. M<\/p>\n<p>Las \u00a0relaciones son tramposas.<\/p>\n<p>Las estrategias que creemos que DEBEN funcionar, no funcionan. Las estrategias\u00a0 que creemos NO FUNCIONAR\u00c1N, funcionan&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Impresionar a la gente:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando tratamos de impresionar a la gente, demostr\u00e1ndole qu\u00e9 tan inteligente somos o que tan ricos o que tan simp\u00e1ticos, ellos pueden ver a trav\u00e9s de nosotros. Y entonces, quedamos como tontos.<a href=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/s1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-619\" title=\"s\" src=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/s1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/s1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/s1-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Por lo general, impresionamos a la gente cuando no intentamos hacerlo. Por esta raz\u00f3n, los beb\u00e9s, los animales y los ancianos tienen un cierto encanto. No les importa lo que los dem\u00e1s piensan, son naturales.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pareja1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-625\" title=\"pareja\" src=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pareja1-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pareja1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/pareja1-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a>Perseguir personas:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando perseguimos a nuestros amigos y amigas, hasta los perros salen corriendo. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Pues porque los perseguimos.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando intentamos atrapara alguien en una relaci\u00f3n, solo pensar\u00e1 en el mejor momento de escapar. Cuando DEJAS IR a las personas, es m\u00e1s probable que vuelvan a ti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ayudar a los dem\u00e1s:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cuando intentamos ayudar a los dem\u00e1s, ni\u00f1os, amigos, empleados, al querer resolver sus problemas, se vuelven dependientes de nosotros; incluso flojos. 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