{"id":7758,"date":"2013-09-29T14:53:19","date_gmt":"2013-09-29T19:23:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/?p=7758"},"modified":"2013-09-30T10:11:49","modified_gmt":"2013-09-30T14:41:49","slug":"querer-vs-amar-me-quieres-o-me-amas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/?p=7758","title":{"rendered":"QUERER vs. AMAR: \u00bfMe quieres o me amas?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/?attachment_id=7760\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7760\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7760\" alt=\"descarga (85)\" src=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/descarga-85-300x224.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/descarga-85-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/descarga-85.jpg 506w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>El concepto querer lleva impl\u00edcita la idea de posesi\u00f3n. Te quiero para algo, para que est\u00e9s conmigo, para que me acompa\u00f1es, para que compartas alguna actividad, etc.<\/p>\n<p>A fin de cuentas, los seres queridos son seres de los que se espera algunos comportamientos que nos causen satisfacci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Querer es, generalmente, causa de sufrimiento. Si quiero a alguien, tengo expectativas, espero algo. Si la otra persona no me da lo que espero, sufro. El problema es que hay una mayor probabilidad que la otra persona tenga otras motivaciones, pues todos somos muy diferentes entre s\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Cada ser humano es un universo.<\/p>\n<p>Amar es desear lo mejor para el otro, a\u00fan cuando \u00e9ste tenga otras motivaciones muy distintas. Amar es permitir que seas feliz, a\u00fan cuando tu camino sea diferente al m\u00edo. Es un sentimiento altruista y desinteresado. Por esto, el amor nunca ser\u00e1 causa de sufrimiento.<\/p>\n<p>Cuando una persona dice que ha sufrido por amor, en realidad ha sufrido por querer, no por amar. Se sufre por apegos. Si realmente se ama, no puede sufrir, pues nada ha esperado del otro. Cuando amamos nos entregamos sin pedir nada a cambio, se da por el simple y puro placer de dar.<\/p>\n<p>Amar produce un gozo profundo. Es la alegr\u00eda de dar. La \u00fanica manera de darse cuenta de esto es empezar a aprender a amar. Se puede comenzar por actos peque\u00f1os, con las personas a quienes m\u00e1s queremos. Luego, debe extenderse a todas las personas, en todo momento.<a href=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/?attachment_id=7759\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7759\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-7759\" alt=\"39\" src=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/39-300x201.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/39-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/seryhumano.com\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/39.jpg 508w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cEs dif\u00edcil encontrar que alguien me ame. Es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil encontrar que alguien me quiera para algo, mientras sea necesario y \u00fatil para alguien. Pero son pocas las personas que dan amor altruista y desinteresado.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pero si bien es dif\u00edcil encontrar a alguien que me ame, tenemos m\u00e1s de seis mil millones de personas, en todo el mundo, que necesitan amor. Y la mayor felicidad no est\u00e1 en ser amado, sino en la acci\u00f3n de amar al otro.<\/p>\n<p>De modo que nuestra felicidad y gozo est\u00e1 asegurado si dejamos nuestro ego\u00edsmo. Seguro que a nuestro alrededor hay cientos de personas que ser\u00e1n felices cuando compartamos con ella nuestro amor. Y no hay problema al darlo: dar amor no agota el amor, por el contrario, lo aumenta.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[youtube]http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=hGytrH-a8Sc[\/youtube]<\/p>\n<p>seryhumano.com \/ Andr\u00e9s Manuel Landaeta<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>El concepto querer lleva impl\u00edcita la idea de posesi\u00f3n. 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